Lingering lip service can cause a woman’s libido to rise like bread in the oven. A heartfelt kiss is the raisin that ferments the yeast of feminine resistance. It’s an erotic secret, a barometer that measures the passion between couples.
Passion, enthusiasm and sensitivity to your partner’s mood count the most. So, what are you waiting for? Try not to slobber as you peruse these tips on how to light her fire with your hot lips.
Freshen Up
You want her to swoon with passion, not pass out from a whiff of your beery tobacco breath. Brush, floss, use a tongue scraper or at least suck on a mint before you make your move.
Make Eye Contact
Lightly brush her lips with your lips, pull away and look her in the eyes. This will stoke the flames of lust more effectively than a tin of petrol and a match.
Keep Your Tongue To Yourself
If swooping in for a first-time kiss, nothing is worse for a woman than a foreign tongue probing her tooth cavities. Except perhaps, a tongue sliding in and out of her mouth like a snake inching towards a bird’s nest. Oh, and hold the saliva, boys. Drool is not sexy.
Slow Down
Starting slowly builds up erotic tension much more effectively than a sloppy thrusting tongue. The latter should be applied sparingly but seductively. You don’t want to stimulate her gag reflex. Tonsil hockey players get left on the field!
Give Her Lip
A proper kiss should be playfully sensual. If she’s in a quiet mood, try a gentle or teasing kiss. A little lower lip nibbling is fine. The mouth is highly responsive and sensitive. Try licking just the corners of her mouth.
Use Your Hands
Cup your partner’s chin or cover her eyes with your hands before slowly and suggestively swirling your tongue around hers. One sensitive area is the palate just behind her front teeth.
Melt Her Resistance
Caressing and kissing your partner’s neck or licking her fingers can be very erotic but don’t stop there. Playfully lick her armpits, the sensitive arch of her instep or her palms. Gently suck her toes. Pay attention to her shoulders, earlobes and collarbone before you zoom in on her lips again.
Share the Taste
Pass a mint or an ice cube back and forth between your mouths until it melts.
Change the Thythm
Teasingly approach her as though you are about to kiss her mouth and then stop at the last minute. Suddenly break off a passionate kiss and leave her panting for more.
Get Wet
Take a deep breath and kiss her under water or in the shower with the water cascading down your bodies. Gently suck her upper lip while she sucks your lower one.
Fake It Until You Make It
If you’re shy, pretending to feel confident works wonders. Just relax, let nature take over and before long the two of you will be smooching like Big Brother contestants in the Jacuzzi!
